Friday, August 23, 2013

Life is Good

"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” 



I survived another day. There were 1000 ways it could have gone wrong. Car accident. Caffeine overdose. Rabid dog attack. Building collapse. Elevator malfunction. Lightning strike. Heart attack. And so many other ways I can’t even imagine.

And because I made it another day, I should appreciate the good things. Why is life so good? In spite of everything, war, crime, politics, death, and taxes, life is good.

100 Things to be Happy About

  1. Laughing so hard milk shoots out of your nose
  2. Drinking a little too much Firefly, but somehow not feeling hung over the next morning
  3. The Internet
  4. Video Games
  5. New books that make you laugh
  6. New books that make you cry
  7. Paychecks
  8. Tax Refunds
  9. Used books with notes in the margins
  10. New car smell
  11. New baby smell
  12. Petting a cat
  13. Petting a dog
  14. Playing with a puppy
  15. Chicken soup when you have a cold
  16. Sleeping
  17. Napping
  18. Long windy roads when you are not in a hurry
  19. Top Gear UK
  20. James Altucher
  21. Zenhabits
  22. Where the Sidewalk Ends
  23. The sound of rain when you are trying to fall asleep
  24. A good ghost story
  25. Movie theatre popcorn
  26. A movie that you have to see three times
  27. Seeing an amazing movie three times with your best friend
  28. Losing a few pounds
  29. Good hair days
  30. Friday at 5:00
  31. Federal Holidays
  32. Museums
  33. Wikipedia
  34. Netflix
  35. Your favorite cereal on sale
  36. Warm fuzzy socks
  37. Giving the perfect gift for someone
  38. Playing the perfect prank
  39. Knowing exactly what to say at the right time instead of a day later
  40. Meeting an inspirational person
  41. Reading a great biography
  42. Realizing you’re lucky to be alive
  43. Praying and receiving an unexpected answer
  44. Finding money tucked in your pants pocket
  45. Finding money tucked in the pages of a book you read years ago
  46. Making a new friend
  47. The smell of clean laundry
  48. The beach
  49. The city
  50. The country
  51. The mountains
  52. The first snow of the year
  53. Falling in love
  54. Realizing it’s okay not to be perfect
  55. Realizing that no one is perfect
  56. Realizing everyone else is just as messed up as you
  57. Getting back up when you fall
  58. A really good sneeze
  59. Laughing so hard you pee a little bit
  60. Great service anywhere
  61. Being pleasantly surprised
  62. Dark chocolate
  63. Warm chocolate chip cookies
  64. Hot fresh donuts
  65. Hot Krispy Kreme Donuts
  66. Girl Scout Cookies
  67. Samoas
  68. Samosas
  69. Mamosas
  70. Fireworks
  71. Firetrucks
  72. A great magic trick
  73. Cirque du Soleil
  74. Carnivals
  75. Silly cat videos
  76. Libraries
  77. Laughing so hard your face hurts
  78. When justice is really served
  79. When a police officer lets you off with a warning
  80. Your favorite song comes on the radio while you hit all green lights
  81. Singing at the top of your lungs when your favorite song comes on
  82. Singing at the top of your lungs with a good friend
  83. Dancing even though you have no rhythm
  84. Lightning Bugs
  85. The night sky in the mountains
  86. Funny cat videos
  87. Facebook
  88. Butterfly Circus
  89. Being glad you came
  90. Being glad you didn’t give up
  91. Being grateful
  92. Missing teeth on a 5-year-old
  93. Snails in the garden
  94. Canoeing
  95. Knowing that everything will be okay
  96. Donating old things to Good Will
  97. The perfect Halloween costume
  98. Seeing kids double back to your house on Halloween because you give out the good candy
  99. Ted Talks
  100. Babies

Monday, February 18, 2013

Elder Financial Abuse (Sign this White House Petition!)


American Senior Citizens are our fastest growing demographic. They are also the group of Americans who hold the vast majority of the wealth in our country. Many of them are also very vulnerable. 

One in ten Senior Citizens in the country experiences elder abuse every year. 

Huffington Post reported that financial abuse robbed almost $3 billion from elder Americans just last year. Who are these elder Americans? They are old soldiers who gave years of their lives to protect our country. They are the humble and brave mothers who cared for their families while their husbands were at war. They are our parents’ teachers. They are the carpenters who built our grandparents’ homes. They are our spiritual leaders… retired fire fighters… businessmen… nurses… police officers… librarians. They are the thrifty people who remember the great depression. They are the people who marched with Martin Luther King, Jr. They are the ones who wept at his assassination. They are the same ones who wept at John F. Kennedy’s assassination, and the wondering eyes who watched in awe as men walked on the moon. They are my grandmother who never answered the door without heels on. They are gentlemen like my grandfather who never walked outside without wearing a tie and hat. They are our national treasures. However, they are also the people who are most likely to be intimidated by someone in their family and lose their hard-earned financial legacies; 78% of elder financial exploitation cases are perpetuated by senior citizens’ relatives. 

One of the first people who recognize this abuse is often a bank teller who sees money patterns changing and funds disappearing from an elder’s account. They are the call center representative who fields a call from a sobbing grandmother who does not know where her money went, and she does not even remember calling in and speaking with someone on the phone because she is in the early stages of dementia. What can these tellers and service representatives do? There are a few states with robust state programs that require financial institutions to contact local social services (See Maryland State’s Project SAFE: http://www.aging.maryland.gov/programs.html); those few amazing state laws give financial institutions safe harbor from Federal privacy laws with regard to reporting elder financial exploitation. However, most states do not have this. In fact, most financial institutions in this country have their hands tied with regard to Elder Financial Exploitation. They cannot do much because of federal privacy laws. There are a couple avenues built into the Bank Secrecy Act, but none is robust enough really to protect our senior citizens. Not when their physical safety, their financial legacies, are on the line. 

All it takes is a few wires, a password, some intimidation, and someone can rob a vulnerable senior citizen of everything they have… leaving them with no money for their mortgage, their groceries, their electricity, anything. The results can be devastating. 

We the people demand a Federal law be enacted that gives safe harbor to financial institutions who report elder financial exploitation and any kind of elder abuse directly to local law enforcement and local social services. We the people demand a Federal law be enacted demanding that elder abuse of any kind be reported to local law enforcement and social services within one week of a financial institution suspecting abuse. We the people demand that our government protect these national treasures… our Senior Citizens. Please sign this White House Petition: http://wh.gov/vl3v